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No Mediation Communications Without Representation: Private Communications Between Mediators and Represented Parties

No Mediation Communications Without Representation

Private Communications Between Mediators and Represented Parties

By Jacqueline Bashaw Fairweather and Leslie A. Berkoff1

Mediation is often praised for its many advantages. It offers increased confidentiality, candor and flexibility; a greater sense of control and collaboration; and inexpensive, efficient and customized resolutions.2 Parties to mediations even report higher satisfaction than those who go to court.3

Mediation enjoys these advantages in part because it is free from the confines of formal adjudication processes. Many judges face significant case backlogs that prevent efficiency.4 On average nationally, it takes a little over two years for a filed civil case to go to trial,5 while a mediator might be more readily accessible. Similarly, without strict litigation procedural rules, discovery can be streamlined and communications with lawyers can be direct, thus saving time and money. Mediation can also reduce the stress that litigation may impose6 and provide emotional closure in unique and creative ways that are not usually available through litigation.7

For all of its flexibility, mediation is not a lawless land. A few of the strictures of litigation still serve as important procedural guardrails for mediators and the mediation process.

One such stricture of litigation is that judges typically communicate with litigants only with and through attorneys.8 Judges seldom speak privately with litigants and do so only carefully when extraordinary circumstances warrant such an action. Attorneys typically serve as intermediaries between the judge and litigant.9 Accordingly, Model Rule of Professional Conduct 1.2 states that “a lawyer shall abide by a client’s decisions concerning the objectives of representation and ... shall consult with the client as to the means by which they are to be pursued. A lawyer may take such action on behalf of the client as is impliedly authorized to carry out the representation.” This relationship ensures that the client’s priorities are — and remain — paramount. The litigant explains their goals to their attorney, who then may litigate or take other steps to advance those goals.

There are good reasons that judges do not communicate privately with litigants without counsel present,10 and those reasons apply in the context of mediation when parties are represented by counsel.11 This article explores these concerns — five practical and three ethical — that warn a mediator against speaking to a client without an attorney present. Through this analysis, mediators, attorneys and represented parties in mediations will enjoy a clearer sense of mediation’s limitations and liberties.

Let’s first explore what practical problems can arise when a mediator speaks directly to a represented party without their attorney present. For the sake of clarity, the term “client” will be used to refer to represented parties in a mediation.

Speaking to a client can seem to be a practical or expedient option at times. The mediator and client do not have to waste time or money waiting around for the attorney, and the client may enjoy a greater sense of control over the conflict at hand, building a rapport with the mediator and confidence in one’s own abilities. This would seem to be in line with the benefits of mediation, but engaging on this path is fraught with peril. Let’s first consider the practical issues that can arise.

Attorneys Might Receive Misinformation

If a client receives information from the mediator, they must relay that information to their attorney, but important details can be miscommunicated. Clients are generally not as well versed in legal issues as attorneys, so it is likely that a client might not appreciate all the nuances of the information relayed to them and might not clearly relay every important detail to their attorney.

Important Information Might Be Lost Entirely

Similarly, key information could be lost entirely, resulting in the client inadvertently failing to convey all information to their attorney. As a result, decisions could be made absent complete information.

Further, an important aspect of the attorney/client relationship is that attorneys have a duty to communicate, advise and inform their client12 — but clients do not have such duties. An obstinate or distrustful client could decide not to share pertinent information with their attorney, thus creating conflict and confusion.

Attorneys Cannot Verify and Evaluate the Information Relayed by the Mediator

In a mediation, attorneys are still responsible for conducting some discovery and legal research to ascertain the strength of each party’s position.13 If the mediator conveys information directly to the client, the attorney is not in a position to deploy expertise to assess the facts or law, and he or she certainly cannot uphold their duty to “explain a matter to the extent reasonably necessary to permit the client to make informed decisions regarding the representation.”14

For example, a mediator could innocently opine that in previous mediations they have never seen the opposing party settle for more than $5,000. A client may hear this and assume that the mediator thinks they should just accept a lower offer, whereas an attorney could objectively distinguish this comment and potentially evaluate whether the mediator may perhaps be too aggressive in their assessment of the facts.

Attorneys Cannot Verify and Evaluate the Information Relayed by Their Client

Without the client having the guidance of counsel, a client may misstep and overshare information or strategic positions with the mediator. The mediator, seeking resolution, may then convey this to the other side, compromising the client’s ability to achieve a more favorable resolution (or any resolution at all) than if the sharing is done on the advice of counsel.

Clients Might Make Important Decisions Without Proper Reflection

As in litigation, an attorney’s client in a mediation is the ultimate decision-maker. While attorneys counsel clients to attain outcomes they are satisfied with, they cannot accept offers without the client’s authorization.15 Thus, it would seem logical that a mediator could relay a counteroffer directly to the client.

However, the client should still secure the input of counsel before deciding whether to accept such an offer, so that they can consider all options. Without such counsel, the dynamic of advocacy that the attorney brings to the table, and that could achieve an enhanced outcome, is diluted — if not eliminated. For all these compelling practical reasons, a mediator should generally avoid communicating directly with a client without counsel present, especially on substantive issues.

The Ethics Side of the Situation

Several weighty ethical concerns further demonstrate that this is generally the best approach.

Mediators May Puff or Exaggerate to Obtain a Settlement

While of course a mediator should uphold the highest ethical standards, it remains true that without counsel present, a mediator may feel more comfortable overstating things to obtain settlement. Mediators often care about obtaining settlements both on personal and professional levels; these motivations could lead mediators to stray from their strict ethical duties, particularly when other attorneys are not present who may more readily recognize such behaviors.16 Without an attorney present, the client might feel unduly influenced by the stature or demeanor of the mediator or compelled by results-oriented representations to accept resolutions they otherwise would not.17

Clients Might Lie to Obtain a Settlement

Similarly, without their attorney present, the client might also feel more comfortable puffing or lying to the mediator. This ethical issue can easily be avoided by ensuring that the client’s attorney is present.18 Beyond intentional misrepresentations, having their attorney present can also minimize unintentional misrepresentations that arise when clients are not sufficiently specific or clear.

Mediators Might Not Appear Impartial or Candid

It is important for mediators to act and appear impartial, and to “promote honesty and candor between and among all participants” to a mediation.19 Mediators who communicate with clients without their attorneys present might risk jeopardizing this appearance of impartiality and promotion of candor — even if the communications themselves are not suspect. The attorney for that client might question the mediator’s ex parte intervention, as may the opposing party and their respective attorney. Such a decision can hurt parties’ confidence in the mediator and mediation process, limit parties’ and attorneys’ willingness to participate in the process honestly and candidly, and lead to speculation that a mediator may have lost impartial distance, overreached, or even unduly influenced a client or made them feel under some pressure or duress.20

Should a mediator subsequently face accusations of a lack of impartiality or candor, the mediator can only rely on their word and the client’s word to refute such accusations. Instead, the mediator should ensure that attorneys are present when speaking with represented clients. Attorneys can vouch for what was or was not said, and can refute such accusations or discourage unsupportable attacks. Their word also will likely carry more weight than the client’s given their familiarity with the issues and their professional duty to speak truthfully.21

These ethical considerations are serious and should generally counsel mediators against speaking with clients when their attorneys are not present. Mediations should be calculated to minimize litigation and prudently structured to avoid legal assaults on the mediator or the consensual resolution achieved. The rapport built or settlements obtained, perhaps more quickly than usual, are simply not worth risking the ethical and relational integrity of the mediation process.

Conclusion

While at times it is tempting to excise counsel from the process, be it for expediency, perceived efficiency or temperament, the practical and ethical concerns identified herein caution strongly against such a practice.

Jacqueline Bashaw Fairweather is a term law clerk to Hon. James J. Tancredi of the U.S. Bankruptcy Court for the District of Connecticut in Hartford. Leslie Berkoff is a partner with Moritt Hock & Hamroff LLP in New York and chairs the firm’s Dispute Resolution Practice Group.


  1. 1 With inspiration and guidance from Hon. James J. Tancredi.

  2. 2 “10 Reasons to Mediate,” U.S. Equal Emp’t Opportunity Comm’n (2003), eeoc.gov/10-reasons-mediate (unless otherwise specified, all links in this article were last visited on March 26, 2025); “Advantages of Mediation,” U.S. Office of Special Counsel; Rachel Gupta, “Overcoming Client Misconceptions About Mediation,” ACC Docket at *2 (June 1, 2021).

  3. 3 “How Courts Work,” Am. Bar Ass’n (Sept. 9, 2019), americanbar.org/groups/public_education/resources/law_related_education_network/how_courts_work/mediation_advantages.

  4. 4 “The Need for Additional Judgeships: Litigants Suffer When Cases Linger,” U.S. Courts (Nov. 18, 2024), uscourts.gov/data-news/judiciary-news/2024/11/18/need-additional-judgeships-litigants-suffer-when-cases-linger; Lewis J. Pepperman, “The Role of Mediation in Litigation,” N.J. Law at 34 (April 2018).

  5. 5 “The Need for Additional Judgeships,” supra n.4.

  6. 6 Constantin-Adi Gavrila & Tareq Numan Mohamed, “Mediation vs. Litigation: The Advantages of Settling Out of Court,” Kluwer Mediation Blog (June 14, 2023), mediationblog.kluwerarbitration.com/2023/06/14/mediation-vs-litigation-the-advantages-of-settling-out-of-court.

  7. 7 Hon. B. Scott Silverman (ret.), “Dealing with Emotions in Mediations,” The Recorder (June 7, 2023), signatureresolution.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/REC-6132023-44420-Signature.pdf.

  8. 8 Model Code of Jud. Conduct r. 2.9 (Am. Bar Ass’n Feb. 14, 2020) (stating that “[a] judge shall not initiate, permit, or consider ex parte communications, or consider other communications made to the judge outside the presence of the parties or their lawyers, concerning a pending ... or impending matter,” save for when exigent circumstances so require). Id. Even then, judges are never permitted to address substantive matters ex parte. Id. Before partaking in ex parte communications, the judge must “reasonably believe ... that no party will gain a procedural, substantive, or tactical advantage as a result of the ex parte communication.” Id.

  9. 9 Model Rules of Prof’l Conduct r. 1.2 (Am. Bar Ass’n).

  10. 10 It is not just judges who are so constrained. In representing clients, lawyers also do “not communicate about the subject of the representation with a person the lawyer knows to be represented by another lawyer in the matter, unless the lawyer has the consent of the other lawyer or is authorized to do so by law or a court order.” Model Rules of Prof’l Conduct r. 4.2 (Am. Bar Ass’n).

  11. 11 Certainly, parties to mediations may not always be represented by counsel. Notwithstanding, the focus of this article is on the attendant limitations when parties are represented by counsel.

  12. 12 Model Rules of Prof’l Conduct r. 1.4 (Am. Bar Ass’n). This rule governs communications between lawyers and their clients, and states that a “lawyer shall explain a matter to the extent reasonably necessary to permit the client to make informed decisions regarding the representation.” Id.

  13. 13 Id.

  14. 14 Id.

  15. 15 Model Rules of Prof’l Conduct r. 1.2 (Am. Bar Ass’n). This rule states that a “lawyer shall abide by a client’s decision whether to settle a matter.” Id.

  16. 16 A mediator who lied or otherwise undermined a party’s interests to obtain settlement would violate Standard I of the Model Standards of Conduct for Mediators (Am. Arb. Ass’n, et al., September 2005).

  17. 17 Conversely, the presence of a client’s attorney can rebuff the impact of haranguing mediators. See Chitkara v. New York Tel. Co., 45 Fed. App’x 53, 55 (2d Cir. 2002) (“The nature of mediation is such that a mediator’s statement regarding the predicted litigation value of a claim, where that prediction is based on a fact that can readily be verified, cannot be relied on by a counseled litigant whose counsel is present at the time the statement is made. That is in essence what the district court held, and we therefore affirm.”).

  18. 18 See Model Rules of Prof’l Conduct r. 4.2 (Am. Bar Ass’n), supra n.19 (discussing one policy underlying this rule: avoiding uncounseled disclosure of information relating to representation).

  19. 19 Model Standards of Conduct for Mediators, Standard II, III, VI (Am. Arb. Ass’n, et al., September 2005) (stating that mediators must conduct mediations in impartial manner and that mediators must withdraw if at any time they become “unable to conduct the process in an impartial manner”); Unif. Mediation Act, Principle 1 (Unif. L. Comm’n Dec. 10, 2003) (citing “promoting candor” as first suggested principle that states may consider adapting to serve function of “purpose” clause,” and noting that candor is key to effectiveness of mediation in resolving disputes); “Mediators Ethics Guidelines,” JAMS, jamsadr.com/mediators-ethics (“A mediator should conduct the process impartially.”).

  20. 20 Lawyers shall not communicate with persons they know to be represented by another lawyer about the subject of a representation. Model Rules of Prof’l Conduct r. 4.2 (Am. Bar Ass’n). This rule “protect[s] a person who has chosen to be represented by a lawyer in a matter against possible overreaching by other lawyers who are participating in the matter, interference by those lawyers with the client-lawyer relationship, and the uncounselled [sic] disclosure of information relating to the representation.” Id., cmt. 1. These same concerns apply in the context of a mediator speaking privately with clients. The mediator similarly may overreach, interfere with the client/lawyer relationship and bring about the uncounseled disclosure of information relating to the representation. Although some have suggested that Model Rules of Prof’l Conduct r. 4.2 should be modified such that it does not apply to emergency communications, such suggestions have not yet been adopted. See Geoffrey C. Hazard, Jr. & Dana Remus Irwin, “Toward a Revised 4.2 No-Contact Rule,” 60 Hastings L.J. 797, 828-29 (2009).

  21. 21 Model Rules of Prof’l Conduct r. 4.1 (Am. Bar Ass’n). This rule states that “[i]n the course of representing a client a lawyer shall not knowingly ... make a false statement of material fact or law to a third person.” Id.

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